Nope... not matched.
It looks like there would be an issue with a past "thing" with my ex and certain aspects of my past and current situation that would cause too many red flags with the clinic's Psychologist. She talked to them herself.
With the amount of money on the line to even get me to that point, it would be too much of a risk to be turned down. She (PIM) did say that her clinic is one of the strictest around.
We wished each other the best... and that's that. Major suckage =/
1 comment:
Oh sweetie,
Big hugs for you. I see your poll asking whether or not you should give up. I answered "no" but really, I think this is a very personal decision. Think about why you embarked down this path in the first place. What are the risks and benefits to your physical and emotional wellbeing for continuing down the path. Is it worth it to YOU? What are the implications to your family? I don't know your history, but I would also sit down and take a hard look at the prior issue with your XH that you mention. If you were in the reverse roll of looking for a surigate, try to look at it objectively and decide if it would be a road block for you. Do you think that the agency was being overly careful or do you think that this issue may crop up over and over again? You mentioned it was reviewed by a phychologist. If you are really passionate about this, do you think that perhaps you could get your own independent phychological assessment done now? From what I gather, you were a wife and mom at a really young age but have allot of experience under your belt now which may have changed your perspective, etc. Obviously I don't know what the situation is, but I just wanted to offer you some food for thought if this is something you really want to do. I think it is a really wonderful noble thing you are doing and if you feel strongly about it, I wouldn't let this let-down get in your way. More hugs!
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